what does he need to do has taken shower an fresh clothes

Asbestos we all know can cause Lung Cancer as you get older but has anyone been diagnosed at an earlier age like 45 or younger. Has anyone heard about Asbestos in Ironing Board Covers? I read an article stating that Ironing Board Covers has a trace of Asbestos in the materials used. Should we be alarmed? Should we throw away all ironing boards and if so, how will we iron our clothes besides using a steam iron? Please help with this difficult solution. I am a bit worried about Asbestos which could be no different than the toxic in the air that can cause Lung Cancer. Any critizm is accepted. Yes, I am a worry-wart. Go easy with your answers and no, I am not like Chicken Little..lol

My little brother somehow fell in some asbestos and he DID take them off and take a good shower, but we’re not sure how to go by with the clothes cuz we can’t find it online xP
Should we wash them seperately from other stuff? throw em away? any tips on this would be nice ^-^

My mom has both even though she never smoked or worked around asbestos. But my dad did. He worked in the shipyards for decades and had asbestosis. Mom washed his clothes, cleaned his lunchbox, rode in the same car with him, etc…. Is there a second hand asbestos like second hand smoke? There’s a lot of stuff about asbestos on the web but, having no medical training, it’s too complicated for me. Thanks for any help.